Tuesday marked the end of my first week in Morocco. Orientation was vaguely reminiscent of college orientation, minus the awkward icebreaker games. The Center for Cross Cultural Learning (CCCL), which runs my program, did its best to give members of the program a crash course in all things Moroccan. My greatest adventure resulted from an activity ominously dubbed “drop-off.” Our program leaders put us on a bus, drove around in circles, and then dropped each student off individually, tasking them to observe an aspect of Moroccan culture and make it back to the program headquarters without a map. I made it back, but not without learning a valuable lesson that will remain with me for the rest of my time in Morocco.
Orientation ended on Sunday, and with little fanfare, I was thrust out of the protective bubble orientation provided. That evening I moved in with my home stay family. We live in a modest apartment on the edge of the medina—a part of Rabat dating back to the sixteenth century. My family is small by Moroccan standards. Unlike other participants in my program living with large families and sometimes their relatives, I reside on the edge of the medina with my home stay brother Saad and his parents.
Moving into a family with little working knowledge of their language is a terrifying thing. Saad’s parent speak French, modern standard Arabic, and Darija, the Moroccan dialect of Arabic. Fortunately, my brother, Saad speaks good English, so I’m not totally on my own. Even so, Moroccans have an affinity for languages. Walking through the crowded streets of the medina at nighttime, one can easily overhear a Moroccan transition in one breath between French, Darija, Modern Standard Arabic, and the Berber (nomadic mountain tribes) tongues.
I didn’t expect to bond with my home stay brother over American music. But within five minutes of my arrival, Saad and I were sitting in his very traditional Moroccan saloon, strumming his guitar and covering western rock songs (Green Day and Third Eye Blind seem to be extremely popular here). Saad was one of fifteen students from Morocco to study in the states for a year, on a scholarship funded by the US State Department. Consequently, he’s well accustomed with our customs. His appetite for American pop culture is insatiable, and I can tell that he hopes to return to the states one day.
That’s not to say that my experience isn’t authentic. Meals during Ramadan are plentiful, boisterous feasts. Because I’m not fasting (with my classes it would be difficult), I’m up to four meals a day. My hosts insist on pushing unbelievable quantities of food on me, to which I rub my stomach and mercifully moan shabet (I’m full) and safi (enough).
Life in Morocco without the language is a humbling experience. Normal, mundane tasks take on an extra degree of difficulty. I’m slowly gaining proficiency in Darija—that is to say I can count to fifteen, order in a café, and recite the first four letters of the Arabic alphabet. I’m a little short on sleep right now, and definitely outside of my comfort zone, but look forward to the hidden surprises and challenges each day brings.


